We live in an age where we feel guilt whenever we have to cut someone off but the reality is that some relationships do need to die, some people do need to be unfollowed and defriended. We aren’t meant to be this tethered to the people in our past. The Internet mandates that we don’t burn bridges and keep everyone around like relics but those expectations are unrealistic and unhealthy. Simply put, we don’t need to know what everyone else is up to. We’re allowed to be choosy about who we surround ourselves with online and in real life, even if it might hurt people’s feelings.
I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.
RIP Maya Angelou. I will never forget how you made me feel (via kawrage
Instead of saying “I should have done this” or “I shouldn’t have done that” ask yourself why you did or didn’t do something. That’s the only way you’ll learn from your actions. Don’t use self hate use self knowledge.
Over three years James Mollison photographed fans outside different concerts for his project The Disciples. ”As I photographed the project I began to see how the concerts became events for people to come together with surrogate ‘families’, a chance to relive their youth or try and be part of a scene that happened before they were born.”
- The Cure
This is so cool!
The Björk girls <3 <3 <3